At the end of your day, do you think about how many times you might have felt joy? I have been thinking a lot about this, especially rece...

In this time of so much controversy, so many personal opinions differ, and while some keep it to themselves, others are quite vocal. How ...

I was recently visiting a patient who has lost his ability to speak clearly, and although he says many words, they are random, and did no...

Every day for the last year of her 95 years, she sat in her cozy chair in the corner of her room and looked out the window. She sipped he...

When you work in hospice, talking about death is something you become very used to, and are usually not uncomfortable with. Sometimes I f...

Over the years as I have started to evolve in the care of patients at the end of life, I have found that what I am drawn to most is how t...

A few weeks ago, I received a message from someone I am connected with on Facebook, but I have never met. Like myself, she is a hospice n...

Before I became a hospice nurse and all through nursing school, I was a caregiver for a husband and wife who were in their 80’s. I took c...

I am writing this on the day of my graduation of a program that certified me to become an end of life doula. I have spent most of the mor...

Every morning I wake up the same way; I check the time, thankful for the additional twenty minutes I usually end up having before I need ...

When people ask me why I do the work I do, which is a question I get often, I usually say the same thing each time; while yes, I see a lo...

I think it is fair to say that after someone dies, we look for signs that they are still out there watching over us, or simply paying us ...

Every Friday I see a patient for wound care, he is not actively dying but he is declining and being in his 90’s I think that would be exp...

I was sitting at the bedside with the wife of a man who was nearing the end of his life. This is not unusual for me, as it is my professi...

As I was driving away from my visit with my granddaughters recently, I thought to myself, “what if this is the last time I see them”, whi...

One of the most valuable lessons I have learned as a hospice nurse, is the importance of the team you share a patient with. Early on I di...

As the weeks and now months pass me by, I find myself feeling less and less hopeful that we will get through this any time soon, and I am...

About a year or two ago I wrote a letter to my family letting them know what I want when I die. I did this because I work in hospice and ...

I spent many hours at the bedside with a man who had been under our care for quite some time, and who was dying… a long and tedious death...

Every morning for the past six months I have kept in contact with a woman who lost her husband. The day after he died, I sent a red heart...