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  • Writer's picture Gabrielle Elise Jimenez

Death and the Rainbow Bridge

Updated: Jun 28

One of the things I have become very drawn to are the visions that patient’s see as they near the end of their life. I have heard stories of people showing up in their room or walking by the door or window, and even reaching for them as though offering a hand to help guide them. I always want to know more. I like hearing about what they see and I am comforted to know that for the most part, there is no fear associated with these visitors.


The visitors vary. Sometimes it is men, sometimes women, usually they are dressed nicely and I have heard often, that the men are wearing hats. Many times, the visitors are loved ones that have passed away, but even the strangers seem to have a way about them that offers a sense of familiarity, which is comforting. Very rarely do any of them create a sense of fear.


One of my favorite stories, that I share often, is about a man who was nearing the end of his life and concerned about the visions that he had seen. The people (visions) that come to see him are not friends or relatives, but they seem kind enough and he enjoys their presence. He wanted to know why they were there, and what he should say to them. Our conversation was very beautiful. I was honored that he trusted me with something that personal and I found so much pleasure in helping him decide what he would say to them the next time they stopped by.


On my last visit with him before he died, he shared that his two dogs that had died years before, came up onto his bed and curled up next to him. He knew then that his time was near and was thankful they came for a visit. It made me think of my dog Jack who I continue to miss every day, and hope will come curl up next to me when my time is near.


In February of 2020, I shared this story on The Hopsice Heart FB page and it went viral, crazy viral. It reached over eleven million people; it has had over thirteen thousand comments, and one hundred and twenty five thousand shares. While there were a lot of comments about visions and hallucinations, with believers and non-believers, what really captured my heart, was the thousands of people that shared their own stories of the grief they feel for the loss of their pets whether it has been a few months or twenty years, and they too hope that one day they get to see their “Jack” again.


Jack was my buddy, my best friend, he never judged me, he was always there for me, he knew when I needed him most and was aways right by my side. When he died, a part of me went with him and although the pain and ache is less, the grief is still there and I feel like it always will be.


The love we feel for our fur babies is deep, which means the loss and grief we feel when we lose them is also deep. I was so blown away by the heartfelt stories shared about losses of pets, but also the comfort complete strangers gave to one another after reading their stories.


You can find this particular post here if you want to read the comments:


I understand that everyone believes differently; some are skeptical, some have a strong faith belief, some have none, some are curious, and some are afraid. But any way you might look at it, whether it is human or fur, when they die, the grief is real and if visions are seen, and someone comes to visit, or a pet crosses back over the rainbow bridge to come see them, and there is no fear involved, I think we should allow them the comfort it brings them without dismissing them, which some often do.


Instead of questioning or doubting it, lean in and listen, ask questions, and be comforted in knowing that in their most diffcult time, they feel a sense of peace.

That’s what I do.


xo

Gabby


You might like this poem: http://www.rainbowsbridge.com/poem.htm


Photo: My dog Jack...



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aceneric
Oct 12, 2023

I know this is old post but must write my experience. About little signs from our lost pets. Although had few pets in my life, both dogs and cats, lost of my adopted cat Norah was the most painful. We were very attached to each other. After she was diagnosed the cancer i know that must be prepared for the time when we need to say goodbye. Last days when we decided to ease to her i was constantly whisper to her about any sign from her after she crossed the bridge. That and Iove You were my last words to dear Norah ... Tomorrow very early me and husband were sitting at the table when a small bird flo…

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daynaws28
Feb 18, 2020

There is a book called Imagine Heaven by John Burke that is WONDERFUL!

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kwcrn4
Feb 17, 2020

Our cat, Max, was 13 years old. He was a diabetic with neuropathy and we knew that he would be leaving soon to be with his brother and sister (they were ferals we raised from birth)


On Saturday, 2/1/20, he threw a blood clot and all of a sudden couldn't walk, he was very distressed and we knew the time was here.


We rushed him to the emergency vet and his suffering ended with us at his side. We were beyond devastated and cried all the way home.


He was cremated and his ashes were returned on 2/10. He was placed on the mantle with his brother and sister.


That night, around 3:30 am, I woke up to a bright…



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theresa_w07
Feb 16, 2020

Yes, PLEASE compile a book of the visions people have shared. It would be wonderful!

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tiffywuschel
Feb 16, 2020

I know your feeling so well.I lost four dogs since now and my Bandit is alteady 11 years old.Hugs to you

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