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The Beautiful Woman in the Rose Garden
As I was driving to see a patient one afternoon, I was at a stop sign and looked over and I saw a woman clipping roses in her garden. The...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
May 13, 20216 min read
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The Tea Light Candle
If you could relive just one moment in your life, what would it be? This is one of the questions from the Death Deck and was asked...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
May 2, 20213 min read
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When your slippers are on the wrong feet.
The other morning, I got out of bed and put my slippers on like I do every morning. As I started to walk toward the kitchen to get the...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Apr 11, 20212 min read
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Packing my memories to go
Just before that last breath is taken, I encourage those who are about to say goodbye, to share some favorite memories. Not necessarily...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Apr 2, 20213 min read
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Finding Balance
From the moment I started working as a nurse, I pushed myself to the point of exhaustion every single day. It felt good to be that...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Mar 19, 20213 min read
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If only I knew then what I know now
A frequent theme in conversations I have with those who are about to say goodbye to someone they love, is that they wish they would have...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Mar 6, 20214 min read
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I Will Say Farewell, Good Man
Working in end-of-life care has me questioning my own mortality often. I can’t help but ask myself how much time I have left, or if I...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Feb 21, 20215 min read
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The Empty Chair
When I first walked into the room of a woman who was dying, I was a little taken back by how dark it was. It didn’t feel as though this was her choice, in fact it felt as though consideration was not taken for her or what she might want. She was dying alone, although she had a staff of private caregivers, who for the most part took wonderful care of her, but no one was at her bedside and her room was far too dark for someone who was dying. At least in my opinion. When I went
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Feb 5, 20213 min read
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Stay Awhile
I had the honor recently of walking through a forest with the wife of a man who died way too young. Her intention was to scatter just a...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Jan 27, 20213 min read
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The voice on the other end of the phone
One of the things I have really grown deep appreciation for while working in hospice, is the different members of the team and the role...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Jan 23, 20213 min read
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A flood of emotions
For many years I have sat at bedsides witnessing people die; this is the work I do, I am a hospice nurse. I have held thousands of hands,...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Jan 16, 20214 min read
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Until the masks come off
When I was in my early twenties, my mother was diagnosed with cancer and given a year to live. I sat at her bedside and talked about all...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Jan 1, 20214 min read
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Their love is a beautiful love
The first thing I noticed when I met them, was the way he looked at her. It was far more than love alone, it was trust, and compassion...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Dec 19, 20203 min read
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The Power of Prayer
I will start by saying that I am not a very religious person. I do not practice any particular faith, nor have I made a commitment to a...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Dec 12, 20203 min read
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The Playlist
Have you ever thought about the music you want played at your death bed? We put a lot of thought into music we want at weddings, and we...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Dec 5, 20204 min read
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The Joy Counter
At the end of your day, do you think about how many times you might have felt joy? I have been thinking a lot about this, especially...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Nov 28, 20204 min read
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I Hear You
I was recently visiting a patient who has lost his ability to speak clearly, and although he says many words, they are random, and did...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Nov 7, 20203 min read
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The Window Seat
Every day for the last year of her 95 years, she sat in her cozy window seat in the corner of her room and looked out the window. She...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Oct 31, 20203 min read
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Death and Dying; The difficult conversation
When you work in hospice, talking about death is something you become very used to, and are usually not uncomfortable with. Sometimes I...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Oct 24, 20204 min read
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Rituals and end of life offerings
Over the years as I have started to evolve in the care of patients at the end of life, I have found that what I am drawn to most is how...
Gabrielle Elise Jimenez
Oct 18, 20205 min read
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